Kanye West wrote a song about his girlfriend Kim Kardashian called “My Perfect Bitch”. The premise of the song is that he has been in relationships with multiple women, but he found everything he needs in her, thus she is his “perfect bitch.” So how did Kim feel about being called a perfect bitch? Kardashian has told friends “I’m honored. I love it,” while making sure to add, “I know he doesn’t mean it in a negative way when he says the word ‘bitch.’” A couple months ago I wrote the following articleshttp://thyblackman.com/2012/06/26/who-you-calling-a-bitch-part-1/ and http://thyblackman.com/2012/06/27/wonder-why-they-call-you-a-bitch-part-2/ regarding women and how we have seem to embrace the word “Bitch”.
What is so flattering about being called a female dog? So basically you’ve perfected being a canine and that warms your heart? Our thinking is so flawed, and because we as women have turned this word into a term of endearment, empowerment and in many cases a brand, Kanye West probably feels like he is really honoring her by calling her a perfect bitch.So he wants a bitch to have his babies huh? You know a bitch can only breed dogs or other bitches, so I wonder if they have a daughter will she then become a perfect bitch for the next man? Would he want a man coming to him and say “Mr. Kanye West, I am coming to you ask permission to marry that fine bitch of a daughter you raised. She is a ride or die bitch. She is a boss bitch, in other words she is the perfect bitch and my life isn’t complete without her.” What would his reaction be then? It would be hypocritical for him to be upset being that the mother of his child is the perfect bitch and what not.
I don’t know why we as women love trying to redefine that word. I wrote a status on my facebook page about women calling ourselves bitches and once again, here comes a Sister with her definition of the word, and she thought it was really positive. She said let’s look at it like this “”BITCH =BLESSED INTELLIGENT TEACHER CHERISHING HUMANITY! Change the way we think when we hear the word.”
So I asked her the following question: “If some random dude on the street called you a bitch what would your INITIAL reaction be? Would you be like that’s right King! “I AM THAT BITCH!!!!!! Thank you for noticing! Peace, light and love Brother!” Needless to say, I never got a response from her.
Notice she said we should “change the way we think when we hear the word.” No mam. Sisters, when you hear the word bitch I want you to ALWAYS think female dog, because that’s what a bitch is. The fact that Kim K thought this was flattering didn’t really surprise me, but when I read various comments on sites, some women said things like “I wish my man would write a song like that for me” or “I am my man’s perfect Bitch too!”. And these comments were from BLACK WOMEN!!! This is so disturbing on so many levels, that women place themselves on the level of a canine and see nothing wrong with, but take PRIDE in it!
Black Woman, you see the above picture first one, that’s a picture of a BITCH! You see the second picture beside it? That’s you BLACK WOMAN!!!! Notice the difference between the two pictures? If you call yourself a bitch, you are calling yourself a female dog, and that’s it. It doesn’t matter if you try to flip it, and say you’re a “bad bitch” you’re a “boss bitch” you’re “THAT bitch“, a bitch is a FEMALE DOG! Now if you are calling yourself a bitch, why are you complaining that you can’t find a good man? Bitches and Men don’t mate with one another!
Black Woman, stop using this word to define you. A Bitch can only produce dogs, but Black Woman you have the capability to produce GODS! You can’t produce God, calling yourself a BITCH! A bitch can’t give birth to a Nation, but dammit Black woman YOU CAN!!!!! You’re NOT going to be successful attempting to convince me that we can flip that word, because I am going to keep bringing you back to the original definition. I do pray that I can be successful in telling you of your DIVINE nature, your purpose and the beauty of embracing WOMANHOOD.